FRIENDS AND BETRAYAL.

FRIENDS. I wanted some, so that I can share all my feelings with them...to get back up, when I'm down.. to share joy n hapiness when I'm happy, to lean on them when I'm sad.... but oh well, the ones closest to us are the ones that can hurt us the most...because they know us well, they know our past, they know our present, they know every single thing about us....

2 types of friends : real friends & back stabbing-hypocrites.

real friends....are people who friends with us because of who we are... they will be there for us all the time, when we're happy, when we're sad, when we're crazy, when we're mad... during hard times, they will help us out, without asking anything in return, when other people make fun of u, or something in front of them or behind they're back, they'll be the first to back u up, and tear them down. If u have one, be thankful...take care of them like how they take care of u. do not take them for granted, and do not take advantage of their undeniably supportive behavior towards u....

back stabbing-hypocrites - people who ask u if u ok, not because of concern, but because of wanting to know how to bring u more down.... usually this type of friends will stick around only when you're happy, when you're sad, they will leave you...and make fun of u among them... but when they're hanging out with u, they will pretend to be sorry for u... and pretend to show that they care...and if you told them ur weaknesses in all ur problems, behind ur back, they will make fun of u again... and if they the kinda people who's really jealous with u in all aspect, they will tell everybody about ur weaknesses, ur problems..and sometimes make up stories about u..adding spices to all of ur tragic problems. Stay away from this kinda friends... they're friends with u, not coz of who u are, but most of the time, they're only using u... to get to something that they like...look at ur strength... maybe you're smart, maybe you're rich, maybe you're pretty... that's the kinda thing that they want every time they spend time with u. they want to be smart, they want to be rich, they want to be pretty... you dont need this type of friends... they bring tears to ur eyes one day when u figured it all out. what hurts the most about being friends with them, is the betrayal that u get from them... it hurts coz u trusted them. u trust they wont eva hurt u, that they will keep the secrets and all that. and if it's wrong to put our trust to people, then what should we ever do? guess what... u can have best friends, u can share secrets with them, but do not share everything with them, do not share ur weaknesses with them, do not show how vulnerable u really are...show ur positive side, not the negative one... show ur strength, hide ur weaknesses.

because when it comes to friends and betrayal, betrayal always win. true friends are hard to find.... but if u find one, you're REALLY LUCKY....